Showing posts with label self love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self love. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Transition and Rebuild

We come to a point of our lives where what we been doing for years and years no longer works. It's like we wake up and want a whole new meaning, listen to this voice! Sometimes becoming in tuned with your spirit can help put things in you life into alignment. Let's apply this to relationships (of any kind) and your love life. If you are dating a person and after whatever period of time elapse you start to feel you like this person. What is the common thing people do? Become intimate, whether it's just a kiss or sexual, but it is INTIMATE. What if we take a few steps back and reevaluate the situation and listen to the inner voice of reason. If you had listened all along you would notice that it would have saved you a lot of trouble. Hypothecially:

Sarah meets a guy named James and from skin surface he is all her type. Naturally Sarah would have listened to the bells ringing that he is the one believing it was her brain, which always turned out to be her Vagina! But this time was different Sarah was on a self quest, she was on her way to self-love. So Sarah sat James down and explained to him "I have these bells ringing in my head that have nothing to do with you. I have to move slowly for myself. I have to honor what I am feeling in order to be sure I'm doing what is right for me." Make your agenda clear, and accept responsibility for yourself. If the person is not truly a loving teacher who has come to help you heal telling them the truth will make them disappear. Sarah told James and he laughed. This was not disappearing, but some tests can be confusing. Sarah continued the situation slowly. One day James kissed her, 5 months later without ANY intimate notation, he kissed her. 40 months of not being kissed she panicked, but she listened to that voice and it yelled "Danger!" and he laughed. After that night he turned into the ugliest person a human being could manifest. The relationship lasted 3 more weeks. And she was relieved when it died down. When it was said and done Sarah had broken another pattern.

This is an example that if you sit back and listen to that voice things work in your light.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

All the questions you ask yourself

On an everyday basis we find ourselves asking the age old question: "Where am I?"
This does not pertain in a physical sense, but more of an emotional, mental, and even spiritual sense. Whether it be you're angry, confused, or simply just trying to grow. I read this great method to clear your mind and channel out all other noise and voices in order to listen to the voice of truth... YOURSELF!
  1. Get Still. Focus on your breath. Find its rhythm and listen to yourself breathing for three to five minutes.
  2. Call forth the presence of light, love, and spirit by reciting a prayer or repeating an affirmation.
  3. Ask all voices in your head to be silent so that you can hear the voice of spirit.
  4. Ask ONE question.
  5. Listen for the answer. You may want to write the answer down- that means write what comes into your mind. Do not censor it, write it. Once you have written, read the response.
  6. Begin the process again and ask another question.

If nothing comes to you then, do not ask another question. It may come in an unexpected form like a song may arouse certain feelings or memories. That's the answer! Or someone may say to you, "You sure look/sound _______". That's the answer! It can happen in several ways. Just be clear minded and receptive of it.

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